I am Going to be a Dad

Wow, I have only dreamt of this day.

My wife is pregnant.

I have thought about this moment often. We talked before about how many kids we wanted to have. I always thought I would be frightened when the time came. Like “how in the world am I going to do this?”. I always hear how people are never “ready” to have kids. They say there is never a “right” time to have kids. I do not feel that way at all. Trust me, I know that parenting is not all unicorns and rainbows, but I am not scared. I am right where I need to be.

I have the greatest woman as my wife. That’s what makes this perfect. Having her as my partner and mother to our child eases my nerves.

I have an awesome family that has been and always will be the greatest support system no matter what is going on in life.

I have great friends and co-workers that this kid will grow up around.

From our friends to its cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents and of course, us, their parents, this child is going to be loved beyond belief.

I wonder, will they play softball like their mother? Will they root for the Pirates like their father or be a poor Yankees fan, like their mom? While all of that is fun to think about, none of it really matters when it comes down to loving this child.

If you cant tell, I am excited. As is my wife. Please keep our nugget and my wife in your prayers for a smooth pregnancy. There will be no shortage of updates on the blog and podcast. Thank you for joining us on this journey and all of your support!

We Swiped Right: Episode 18 “’Five Direction”

Apple Podcasts- https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/we-swiped-right/id1363616024?mt=2#episodeGuid=dcb4ecc2-cad0-bc77-a773-f9355676e782

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Welcome to Episode 18! Check out some of the weird news stories we talked about: 

• World’s Largest Bee Is Spotted For First Time In Decades – https://www.npr.org/2019/02/21/696626918/worlds-largest-bee-is-spotted-for-first-time-in-decades

•  A woman was jailed for 3 months because police thought her cotton candy was meth – https://www.cnn.com/2018/11/27/us/cotton-candy-meth-dasha-fincher-trnd/index.html 

• Kayla’s Ebates referral – https://go.ebat.es/erLdukzJnU 

• Donnie’s Ebay – https://www.ebay.com/usr/djharkcom89 

• Our Favorite Instagram accounts: 

• Sarah Nicole Landry – https://www.instagram.com/thebirdspapaya/?hl=en 

• Doug the Pug – https://www.instagram.com/itsdougthepug/?hl=en 

• Kaitlyn Bristowe – https://www.instagram.com/kaitlynbristowe/?hl=en 

• Olivia Caridi – https://www.instagram.com/oliviacaridi/?hl=en

• targetdoesitagain – https://www.instagram.com/targetdoesitagain/?hl=en 

• Mophie – https://www.instagram.com/mophie/?hl=en 

• TravelHomeDad – https://www.instagram.com/travelhomedad/ 

• Mav_Tech – https://www.instagram.com/mav__tech/?hl=en 

• Kayla Harkcom – https://www.instagram.com/kayla.harkcom/ 

• Gshock _ Steven – https://www.instagram.com/gshock_steven/?hl=en

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We Swiped Right: Episode 17 “’Fry’ Festival”

In episode 17 we talk about all of the movies, books, tv shows and everything else we have been up to. 

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Apple’s Smart Battery Case

I know I know, I don’t shut up about battery cases. I have reviewed the ones from Zerolemon and mophie before, but this one is one that I have been waiting on for a while!

A couple of weeks ago Apple released their own battery cases for the iPhone XS, XS Max and XR.

I have been testing this thing out and I absolutely love it. I originally wrote a review for the iPhone 7 Smart Battery Case and my thoughts mainly remain the same.

A couple of things on this one:

  • It is heavy. These iPhones are already pretty heavy. Beware of that. Especially if you have the iPhone XS Max or XR, this case is going to add some weight to it.
  • The price is no fun. It is $129. Of course, I would rather it be cheaper but when mophie is charging $119 for their new Juice Pack Access that only gives you 35%-40% extra charge, I feel like $129 is right where it is supposed to be.
  • You should get 80%-85% extra battery with Apple’s Smart Battery Case for the iPhone XS. As a side note, this case has been confirmed to work with the iPhone X.
  • This case works with lightning and Qi wireless charging. So no need for any extra cables.
  • It is integrated great with iOS. When you put the case on the charger it tells you the charge of the case and your phone. Also, you can get those charge percentages when you swipe over to your widget screen.
  • A couple of users have mentioned on twitter that their battery health dropped since using the case. I thought this coincidence and the health just dropped around the same time as using the case. Two weeks in, my battery health dropped from 100% to 95%. I am going to keep a close eye on this to see if there is any significant damage. Some of these users have mentioned that their battery health went back up to 100% after a couple of days.

Overall, these cases are exactly what I have been wanting from Apple. To never have to worry about battery, is a great feeling. For some people, who are around chargers all day, you won’t gain much value from this. But if you are always on the go or travel a lot, this case is a no brainer!

Apple Smart Battery Case for iPhone XS

Apple Smart Battery Case for iPhone XS Max

Apple Smart Battery Case for iPhone XR

Disclaimer – Some of the links in this post are affiliate links, and at no additional cost to you, I will make a commission if you decide to purchase after clicking the link.

Let me know in the comments or on Instagram and twitter if you are going to buy one of these.

As always, thanks for stopping by!


7 Ways to Deal with Burnout, Stress, and Imposter Syndrome

This is a real good article that touches on a couple of different issues including burnout.

Jeff Perry at RocketPanda.net:


I have seen people I follow and consider my peers gain success in their own ways and I can’t help be get a little jealous and envious of them for growing while I am not growing fast enough to my liking. This kind of thinking is how you get discouraged and throw in the towel. It isn’t healthy to always be looking how well others are doing and comparing yourself to them. If anything it will drive you insane.

Like Jeff, it is hard not to keep checking your growth on different platforms and comparing yourself to others. I think you have to ask yourself why you are doing something. What is your goal? When I had more time and just started the blog, I would reach out to individuals on twitter who had questions about products that I wrote about. I got a lot of clicks that way, made some more money and provided tons of value to people looking for answers. But that was also a lot of work. With work, comes results.

Go give Jeff’s article a read.